Hi. Btw I wasn’t talking to another guy in a romantic way. The friends who were guys are strictly friends and nothing more. We’ve started talking again a bit, he told me that he doesn’t trust me now and that he needs time to forget and it’ll be perfect then. I’ve changed my friend group so now I only have friends who are girls and the only guy I’m talking to is him. I don’t want to lose him, I want him to be mine again. Also I said that I’ll be happy and positive around him so that he’ll start trusting me again and that everything will be perfect.
I was in a relationship for 1 year and 1 month before my ex broke up with me because he didn’t trust me cuse I had friends who were guys and he thought I was talking to another guy at the same time I was dating him
I’m really lost and I really need your advice on how I could increase the chances of him starting to trust me again. And yes I’ve done the stupid part of being an emotional wreck and begged him. Btw he lives in Sweden and I live in Finland so it was and will be long distance for a bit more than a year before we could be close to eachother.
I contact him ask for meet up, he agreed and we have two greats night together with cuddling, kissing, and sex
I just need help of earning his trust back and I don’t really now what actions I could do to get him to trust me again.
Start by building up a friendship first, since you’re talking to him and trust is earned over time, so you’ll have to show him that you’re no longer talking to other guys through your actions (when you’re out with your girls let him know who you’re with, etc) instead of just telling him. Fortsätt läsa ”I love him,but I don’t want to look desperate by running after him”