For example, we interact only with individual messages that are well-written, reference our profiles, and do something to extend the conversation –– no more entertaining “hey gorgeous” messages or men whose profiles contain only their cellphone numbers because they’re not actually paying to use the app.
We refuse to be pen pals, and we refuse to fight with men or to waste any of our time and energy putting them in their place, even if they deserve it (women still take a lot of abuse and aggression on dating apps)
If a conversation is decent but not moving toward meeting in real life within a week or two, we block without further interaction. Fortsätt läsa ”We’re suddenly meeting men who are respectful and relationship-minded, and we’re actually going out on good dates”